Forced new blog, and some tips for finding MR White.....

Andre and Nass recently engaged, and Andrew and fiance below:

Hey everyone. I'm so sorry to have to do this, but had to change to a new blog. My blog was hi jacked and I could not get the situation straightened out. I could not even get the name back, and I love the old name! This is the last time I will deal with blogger. If something happens with this one, I will be looking for a new blog home...It's been tremendously stressful because I spent hours on a new post I was unable even publish, or add comments or anything. It's been a real pain, and I can't even get content from the old blog, but I believe in focusing on the positive so lets move on....

Lets talk about some ways to meet a nice white guy....
Ever notice how some women tend to attract the same type of man over and over again? It's because she is putting out a certain type of energy. If you want to attract a great guy, you must have good energy. The reason many ppl think bw are angry is because many live in the hood, and that mean face is a survival mechanism. But what many women don't realize is that your body says as much to your mind as your mind does to your body. What do I mean by that? Just that Emotion is created by motion. In other words if you walk like a queen (your version of one) and you talk like a queen, and present yourself as one, other ppl with begin to see you this way. One of the most detrimental problems of women in the hood is that they often must seem as aggressive as men in order to protect themselves and their children. In turn, they are immediately labeled as angry, sullen, masculine, and other undesirable traits. The greater problem is that they begin to think of themselves this way! This is due to their body talk. And make no mistake about it, your body absolutely talks to your mind. If you were to force yourself to get out of bed and run morning after morning, no matter much you hated it in the beginning, soon your body would convince your mind that this is the type of person you are and you would no longer have to force yourself. This change would usually take place after 30 consistent days and be quite reinforced after 45 days.
So what does this have to do with finding a nice white guy? Simply that many bw are running around secretly 'wanting' a white guy while going to all black enclaves. Such as dances, sporting events, even restaurants where the majority of the patrons are black. Why? If you really desire to step outside the bounds of race, why are you confining yourself to "so called "-Black places, black dress style, black music etc. Step outside the box and experience ALL life has to offer. Many bw seem so tough to the outside world, but I have a tidbit of wisdom for you. If bw were as tough and rock solid as many pretend to be then why are they so fearful of what other ppl think and say? Many bw wont even wear their own hair! (when they really want to) because they are terrified that ppl will speak ill of them. Many would love to listen to other kinds of music and Many, Many would LOVE to date other kinds of men, but too many are afraid of what "other ppl with say" Think about that for a moment. That's like living in a fish bowl. Being afraid to make the wrong move for fear of everyone outside the bowl having a rousing laugh at your expense. When no matter what you do, ppl ARE going to talk about you! That's just the way it is. And the more you do with your life, the more they are going to talk. You really cannot escape it, and the only way out is death, so forget about trying to please everyone else, and just live life by your terms.
And think about this for a moment. No matter what a bw does, she's under hostile scrutiny. If she screams that she loves "brothas" trying to give love and support to fools who don't deserve it, she is desperate, and pathetic. If she speaks well, or goes to school, to try to better herself, she is "acting white" and trying to leave bm behind. If she lays down everything she has for the bc, she is a "dumb ass doormat' who is allowing herself to be used. But if she doesn't, and keeps her resources to herself, she is a selfish B turning her back on struggling "brothas"... It goes on and on. The truth of the matter is that bw can never make bm happy because BW REMIND BM (by their presence)  THAT THEY ARE BLACK AND THAT IS SOMETHING BM DESPISE, AND MOST DO NOT WANT TO BE
You will NEVER be able to please them so plz don't squander your life trying. Im off topic though. lets get back to some ways to meet a nice wg.

Duh. Go to places wg go! This is so elementary, I can't believe I have to say it, but a lot of bw frequent black enclaves almost exclusively and wonder why they don't meet non-bm!
Go to places like golf games, ski trips, surfing trips, -HOCKEY!!! Ladies hockey and golf are such white sports-you can almost predict there will be very few bm there. This is what you want. You want to go to places where you have a chance to meet a nice wg without bm there to derail the conversation before you have a chance to make introductions. And trust me they will do everything in their power to stop bw from meeting, dating and marrying out because unlike a NORMAL society, in the bc the women hold almost  80% of the wealth!!!
 Learn etiquette and go to very nice restaurants,  Always aim to look appealing but tasteful.  Please ladies leave off the tacky faddish urban clothing the young girls seem to love.  If you are really young, go for some of the more costly and centralized brands instead of  urban wear. Nothing screams you belong to bm faster than urban wear. A great way for very young bw to meet wbs is to simply wear a pair of figure flattering jeans and a ROCK TEE. The wbs will be instantly intrigued, even if they don't love that particular group. They know bgs who are open to alternative forms of music, are also usually the ones open to IR dating. There is a direct correlation between open minds, and better lives.

Now I have another suggestion, to those who say they don't like this type of music or that type. Let me say that this is primarily conditioning. You learn to embrace what you are around. This is the primary danger of keeping your children in the hood.  I for instance have lived most of my life in suburban areas, and have always loved country music. But you can always decide to change. Today does not equal tomorrow, and just because you've always done something, does not mean you have to keep doing it. Learn to embrace other things. Other languages, other music, other activities etc.
Also, ladies plz leave off the big gaudy earrings, and loud hair styles. Think class and decorum. You have to look at it from his point of view. Do you look presentable? Could he take you home to meet his mother in your "normal" wear?  If not, then get a new "normal". And don't bother telling me that you are not going to change for "no man"  Since the beginning of time, women have conformed in many ways to get the man they wanted. This is a secret many ww know. Many wgs may be very promiscuous in their teen and young adult yrs. And they may have relations with any and every type of man-while they sow wild oats. But as soon as they decide it's time to get a good man and father for their babies, they will subtly change and evolve into "wife material", and leave the wild times in a distant memory.

Men, by their nature are very attracted to smiling happy women.  This is why the media often tries to present bw are hard nosed B@!ches. They want to keep the wm from looking her way in the first place. This is why the miscegenation laws were passed back in the day. You now have many bm trying to claim it was to keep bm and ww apart. That's pure bs. Bm back in the day could not LOOK at a ww without swinging from a tree-so he sure as hell couldn't marry her! A ww who made her passion for bm be known would also have been in grave danger. No, the only group who had the power to IR marry was WHITE MEN. This is why the laws were passed. To stop wm from marrying the bw and having children with them -thus diluting the purity of the white race. 

Another great way to find a great wg is to take a wm friend of yours along with you when you go shopping or do your errands. Hold his arm and laugh as you talk. Be open and friendly, and most of all happy. Watch and see all the wgs turn and look at you with interest in their eyes. This is a great time to send your friend on an errand and strike up a convo with the cute guy trying to watch you inconspicuously.  Another tip is to leave off the gutter mouth. If you find that you are unable to get your point across without swearing like a sailor, then grab some vocab books, and study them.
Nothing screams low class like a woman screaming profanities like she's had no upbringing. Would you even talk to a woman like this, if you were a man? 

Well ladies, I'm going to sign off now. But please feel free to add your own tips to this list, and let everyone know what worked for you.... Have a great night....